Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Behind The Scenes of Episode 7


Friends!  I'm sorry for the delay - in both my pictures from Mora (episode 6) and my behind-the-scenes in Gotland (episode 7)!   I have been having WAY too much fun traveling around Sweden and visiting friends and family and find myself too tired to write each night as I fall into bed!   But I am sitting down this morning and making sure I get my notes and thoughts on episode 7 written down!   Thank you all for following along and I can't wait to see you at the finale next week!!!!

-When the koffert said we were going to Gotland Island, I had no idea what to expect...and Gotland just continued to be full of surprises as we spent time on the island.    To those of you who have never been to Gotland, I say do yourself a favor and book the trip now for this summer!   It's part history lesson (with all the old windmills and churches and burial mounds and the walled city of Visby) and part commercial vacation destination (with beaches and shopping and food and water parks and put put golf courses) - but it is ALL fascinating and fantastic!  It was such a pleasure to spend our last time in Sweden on Gotland Island!

-The food in the koffert was called safron pancake...and it's a dish native to Gotland.   The funny thing is, when we opened it and realized we were supposed to try it, there was the goat cheese sitting on top of it, so being the dumb tourists that we are, we figured that we were supposed to eat them together.  So we did.   And it was hysterical to see the crew reacting behind the cameras because CLEARLY you're not supposed to eat them together.   I actually thought it was delicious anyway (because come on....cheese makes everything delicious!) but I now know that it is NOT meant to be eaten together.  

-I really think the safron pancake is best described as kind of a cornbread casserole....or like spoon cornbread, for those of you who know what I'm talking about.   It's sweet-ish and delicious...and although it was good in the pan, it was even BETTER at the restaurant with cream and blackberries.  I could eat that stuff every day.

-I STILL stand by my contention that Becky was just being contrary with the safron pancake JUST to be contrary.  There is NO WAY she actually tasted it at first to decide that she hated it.   I think it was just more dramatic and interesting to hate it if we liked it.   Because much like staying with strangers (episode 4), she came around in the end.   I could be wrong...but you don't go from a safron pancake tantrum one day to ordering 2 the very next day.   They both really basically tasted exactly the same.   But I still love you Becky. 

-The ferry to Gotland was PACKED!   (There were even a couple of women's roller derby teams onboard!  How exciting is that!?  Shane talked to them - they were heading to Gotland for team retreats!)  It was nice to take the 3+ hour trip and hang out with crew and cast friends and chat and laugh.

-If you can't tell when we're on the deck of the ship - only one person was NOT too happy to be on the boat.  John is NOT a fan of boats - and wasn't too happy to be on the open Baltic Sea.  But he's a trooper and he made it!

-VISBY.   IS.   A.  SPECTACULAR.  LITTLE.   CITY.    I felt like I was on a movie set the whole time we were there.

-So as we were walking toward our little stuga, in the episode, you will see a white little house to our left (as I am talking about campers and all of us sharing one).   Somehow, as we walked along the path, we ended up going into that little white house first....and thinking it was going to be where we were staying.   What the building is turns out to be a community tv room, basically, for the campground.  It has a tv, like 4 couches, a ping pong table, and cold stone floors.   But there was a key in the door and no one else in there, so (LIKE IDIOTS) we walked in, looked around and said "I guess this is where we are staying."   If they would've shown that on the episode, you would've seen ANOTHER round of epic meltdowns by the ladies.  EPIC.   And I don't think any of the guys were thrilled about staying there, either...but we figured it was just part of the adventure.   THANKFULLY, the camera crew eventually told us we were NOT staying in the community tv building and took us to the proper stuga, but not before they had some good laughs at how ridiculous we all were for thinking we were staying in that little tv place.   We really are idiots sometimes.

-Peter van den Hooganband is a Dutch swimmer from past olympics.  Just FYI.   I don't speak Dutch.

-The mosquitoes were pretty out of control on Gotland around the little stuga.  Like everywhere.   The only place they were similar was our first stop in Sigtuna.  So so so many mosquitoes.

-The beach to me really was SO surprising.   The sand was white and soft and lovely.  Our first time on the beach in the episode, we spent a good long time out there, walking and exploring and playing.    And then a couple of people went inside...and then they took a couple more people to do interviews, and before long, I looked up and I was sitting alone on the beach just staring at the water and listening to it.   It was actually a really lovely moment for me, because I was there maybe 30 minutes alone, listening to music and thinking about everything we had done in Sweden up to this point...and I was overwhelmed with such gratitude as I sat there.    And now whenever I think of Gotland, I think of that beach day and my alone time on the beach and those feelings of gratitude!   I love how memories tie things in our lives together!

-Also don't worry....I finally snapped out of it and someone came looking for me.    It's all good.

-It seems like we've seen shocking things (or "shocking" things) the past few episodes and everyone's answer is always "they would get arrested in America."   But I just want to go on record and say that I don't think there would be that much arresting for many of these things.  Warnings maybe - or citations - but not full on arresting.  Maybe I'm wrong...but I just wanted to share my opinion.  Thanks. :)

-Team challenge day really was the longest day ever.    We had lunch (a really delicious lunch of thin sliced smoked lamb and boiled potatoes...and it turned out to be one of my most favorite meals the entire trip....) around lunch time and then the challenge started soon after, and I think it was about 6-7 hours of running around doing this thing.

-The idea of the challenge day was two-fold:  to compete by asking people for answers to the questions, but ALSO to see Visby and spend time as tourists...so as we walked around, we were encouraged to BE tourists...shop, see things, take pictures, etc.   It was an interesting challenge from that perspective...mainly because once we got going on the competition element, we weren't really in a touristy mood!

-So a few people have asked me about the make-up of the teams.   Because John and Shane were a team of 2, before the competition started, Becky, Lori and I were told WHICH legs of the challenge we would compete in....to make it fair that there were only 2 vs 2.   It WAS tough sometimes to watch the other 2 compete and not to be able to help and give suggestions...but that was all part of the game.  We all walked around together but one person hung out with the crew each time.

-The episode did a really good job of showing how unresponsive people were - but I really honestly think it was even MORE than you saw on the show.   I really consider myself pretty gifted in the field of gab - I can talk to a brick wall if I need to - but there was something about the people that day that just shut us down at every turn!   I'm sure it was the combination of the clipboard carrying AND the film crew running up to you - and a dozen other things - but it really was one of the most difficult things we had to do my entire time in  Sweden.   I'm just glad WE had a little less problems with it than the yellow team!

-For as stressful as it was trying to get people to talk to us, Becky and Lori and I actually had a great time together....it was a fun, stressful challenge.

-I gotta tell you the craziest encounter we had in Visby...which had nothing to do with the challenge.   Towards the end of the challenge, our group (contestants and camera crew) stopped in a little restaurant to get snacks, drinks and use the bathroom.   While we were there, we started talking to some of the restaurant staff, and I ended up talking to this cute young gal named Linnea.   She was talking about being a student and working in Visby for the summer - but she is from Mora originally.  I said we had just come from there and some of my family was from there, and we laughed that we were probably related.  We took a picture just to be safe.   THREE weeks ago, I got a message on FB from Linnea - and she said her mom had just called her because a cousin had contacted her to say they were related to me from the show.   When I went on my family chart that I had gotten from the research in the show, her mom's name was one of the people I hadn't been able to contact over the past few months!   And here her daughter was - making the connection for me!   How RANDOM is that!?   I haven't had a chance to meet Linnea again - she goes to school up in the North of Sweden - but I met her mom, dad and sister last week in Mora...and they are the BEST!  Such a strange little coincidence in Visby!!!!  (My Facebook profile picture is of me and Linnea from Visby.)

-One of our stops between questions was a stop at a little flea market - and I tried on an awesome wig and danced around in it.   Naturally.   You'll enjoy seeing the pictures when I get them posted!  Be sure and stop back by to see them!

-Becky trying to put the key in the cigarette lighter was the most honest, hysterical thing ever.    I don't know what cars are like in Texas...but it was her immediate instinct when she got in to put that key in there.  And we laughed and laughed and laughed.

-I had a lot of fun in Sweden, but I think one of the most fun days was the drive around part of Gotland with Becky.   The first part of the drive, they really just said drive where ever you want and find something to explore...so it was Becky and I who found the church and decided to explore it!  It was really fun - and it was very shocking to us both to find the church completely unlocked and open during the day!  We later learned that was normal - but I really thought someone had forgotten to lock it up and we just got lucky!  HA!  

-The rest of the day was sort of planned for us - the visit to the little shop and getting some safron pancake to eat - but we spent a LOT of time trying to FIND the little shopping place.  It was right under our noses most of the time, but we still had trouble - along with the crew - finding it.   But it was such an interesting little shop that I'm glad we finally did.   AND the safron pancake was just as delicious as before.

-Becky bought teddy bear salt shakers at the store.   I bought nothing.  But I should've.  I regret it.  I don't know what I would've bought...but I am still sad I didn't.   PS - Becky broke her salt shakers already at home in Texas.

-I will go on record and say the water park freaked me out....I wasn't lying about it.   There were SO MANY little kids running around - and I knew they had to be peeing in that water.  But I didn't care - I brought my book because I am always prepared....I didn't complain about it...and I enjoyed my relaxing afternoon at the Pee Waterpark.   But I'm glad Becky and Shane had a great time.

-Our Swedish School with Anders was really interesting because we got to turn the tables on him and get him to chat about our questions.  It was a fun, interesting night.   Also, it was a delicious meal that we had at that restaurant in Gotland - with different kinds of lamb AND 4 different kinds of potatoes!  HELLO!?  I love potatoes!  It was like heaven.    We probably had about 1 1/2 to 2 hours of conversation with Anders - and talked about the things you saw, and such other things as Swedish pizza, race relations in Sweden, and the list goes on and on and on.  He was a good sport...especially because this dinner was held right after the team challenge - so people's emotions were running high that night.   But I think we put that aside and had a great time with him!

-So the elimination challenge was so crazy because they brought us to wait in the parking lot when they said the challenge had just started...so with the challenge being 30 minutes, they should be done soon after we got there.   When we got there, they had just started...and we waited and paced and worried in the parking lot as the time went longer and longer and longer!   AN HOUR!?   Who knew they would walk that long!?  Crazy.   I like to think that I would do better...but honestly, there is just no way in telling in these things!   But it really was so nerve-wracking as we waited to see who was going home!

-I learned from one of the crew members that very near the challenge site, a tour guide was there with a large group, talking about the history of the area and the island...and he was talking very very loudly....through the whole challenge!   That would have been so disrupting as a competitor!   I can't even imagine!   But I am impressed with the editing to not have him anywhere in the shots!

-Also, I don't think Shane will mind if I tell you his "strategy" for the challenge - and what ultimately brought him down.   So his plan was to do a simple math problem - 60 seconds in a minute times 30 minutes - so he was going to count to 1,800 (60 x 30) and that should be right at 30 minutes.  EXCEPT - he messed up his math and he said (in interviews to the crew) that he was going to count to 18,000!   And he was on that path of counting to 18,000 when he saw John step in to the middle (after a whole HOUR of walking!)  So he walked to the center to end the game.   Again, I can't imagine what I would do in that instance, and I know my math skills are not that great...but MAN oh man there is a huge difference between 1,800 and 18,000!!!  I was SO bummed Shane was leaving!   He became such a dear friend - and I hated that he had to leave!  There were 18,000 reasons I wanted him to stay around and be in the final 4 with me!!!!

-So side note - I actually saw Shane 2 days later in Stockholm - the night before he flew out.  We had just finished filming and took the trip back and we stayed at the Nordic Lights Hotel again -and Shane was there getting ready to fly home EARLY the next morning.  It was nice for Becky and I to see him again one more time before we all went out separate ways!

So there is Episode 7!   If there is anything I didn't cover, please feel free to let me know!  I'm happy to answer anything else.   And I look forward to sharing my thoughts on Episode 8 - the finale with the final 4 - next week!    And hopefully, I'll get some pictures up soon - both from Mora AND Gotland!

Thanks for following along friends!

Sunday, November 24, 2013

Behind the Scenes Thoughts: Episode 6

Hello everybody!  Welcome to a behind the scenes look of Episode 6...coming to you LIVE from the shores of Lake Siljan in beautiful Mora, Sweden!  It's been an amazing weekend experiencing Dalrna again - this time in the cold of late November - and meeting some of the relatives I've had a chance to connect with online since getting home from Sweden this summer.  (Many of them are from other branches of our Swedish family tree here in Sweden - branches that the show didn't collect research on!)   It was an fantastic weekend and a fantastic episode!

-The drive from Karlstad up to Mora was breathtaking at every turn!  Just another beautiful day driving around Sweden to be thankful for.  (I think it was about a 3-4 hour drive...with incredible scenery along every mile!)

-I love opening the Amerikakoffert this episode because we all look like we just rolled out of bed and into the park.  And kinda of, that's true.   When we made the plan to drive from Karlstad to Mora, we were told it was an easy day to drive up.  So we left late, stopped for food, took our time...thinking that we would have a day of leisure upon arrival - which gave everyone the freedom to just be relaxed in appearance and not worry about contacts and dressing "up".   But about 45 minutes outside of Mora, we started getting calls asking where we were and we needed to hurry...and instead of having a day of relaxation, we went straight into filming!  So you see us in all of our roadtrip glory (which for me is also my day-to-day-in-Sweden glory, for the most part.)   But after the koffert, we broke into our two groups and went to the Zorn Museum (John, Lori and Dawn) and the outdoor village museum (also a Zorn museum)(with Shane, Becky and I), so it was definitely NOT a day of leisure! 

-I think the genuine excitement you see in our faces when we find out we're going to make our own Dala horses is probably one of the most genuine reactions of the season.   I mean...honestly....WHO gets to do that!???  WE DID!

-This is another episode where the editing of what we did and when we actually did it is all over the place, so it looks like my clothing choices are all over the place.  I know no one probably notices it - except me - but I just wanted to put it out there.   I actually really love seeing they take what we actually filmed and slice it up and string it together to tell the narrative each week!

-Also for the record...I knew what the Swedish flag looked like before coming here.  My castmates made it sound like all we know is the Dala horse back home...but being the Olympic fanatic that I am, and the flag fanatic that I am, I have long been aware of the Swedish flag.   Just let the record state that.  Thanks.

-The outdoor museum Shane, Becky and I went to was INCREDIBLE!  It really looked like this cool 'Game of Thrones' village on the edge of Lake Siljan!  Some of my most favorite moments here never made it on camera.  When we first walked into the outdoor space, the first little courtyard area had this big water well, with a bucket on this big swinging arm, and becky and I started laughing and being silly that it was like Cinderella at the well...so she and I started singing that song from Disney's Cinderella (when she sings into the well and the echo answers her): "I"m wishing...for the one I love...to find me....today."   And Becky played the Cinderella role (NATURALLY) and I was the echo.   I don't know why it struck us as so funny, but spent WAY more time than we should have doing it.  It was pretty hysterical - and I thought for SURE would make the cut.  But it didn't...which really is probably best.

-One of my most favorite personal, spiritual moments this whole adventure was sitting in that park that day - both talking to Shane and Becky by the tree...and sharing more of my life with them - and then again when I realized that this was a gift I could give my father.   That moment was a real 'spur of the moment' realization - as I sat there that day - and I consider it such an incredibly personal experience that just happened to have been captured on film.  I'm very very thankful for that day with my dear friends.

-The other highlight of that little village was the 3 seat OUTHOUSE that we found and took pictures in!  Take a look at my photos tomorrow to see Becky, Shane and I having as much fun as you can have in an outhouse!

-Like a week or so before this team challenge, I had a dream that we had a men-vs-women team challenge - and it wasn't skiing the vasaloppet - I don't remember what it was really but I remember we laughed a lot - but I told everyone that I had this dream and I thought one of our team challenges was going to be a men-vs-women.  I don't think I'm psychic - I just think I had a random thought from a random dream that ended up happening.   And also, in this challenge, we did NOT laugh a lot we did in my dream.  We were LASER focused!

-I love when John and Shane and I are talking about the competition and how Shane was talking about we were going to wipe their faces in the ground.   It's funny when Shane tries to act tough.  HA!  I can only say that because it's also funny when I try to act tough.

-When they showed us the challenge first off, they also allowed each team to do a quick practice walk on the skis of like 10 feet.  Not too far.  But it allowed them to size the foot holes for each of us.   Both teams were there, and we watched the girls and I don't think anyone of them would disagree that their practice was pretty dismal.   It actually gave the three guys more confidence because the girls had a really tough time pulling it together for that practice.  I'm glad to see they did better with it in the real competition - but that practice was a MESS for them!

-I died of embarrassment at the hoop throw.  We had talked that the best way to do it was throw it like a frisbee....which you see John and Shane do immediately.   And something within the stress of the race, I THOUGHT I was doing...but clearly I wasn't.   After I missed it three times throwing it the weird way I was throwing it, Shane said "Throw it like a frisbee!"  WHICH WE HAD DISCUSSED!  And as you saw in the episode, once I made that correction, it was perfect.  But I seriously thought up to that point that I HAD been throwing it like a frisbee.  It's so WEIRD how our minds work under pressure.  MAN it was embarrassing watching myself throw those things!

-Can you TELL how out of breath I was as I tried to read that math problem?  Awful.  I thought I wasn't going to be able to finish reading it because I couldn't catch my breath!  I could NEVER be a cross country skier.  HOW do people do that race of 90 kilometers?!?!  I couldn't even make it a full block without getting winded!

-I love that Shane said he was so bad at math - because he busted out that answer!  I'm REALLY mad at math so if I had been in charge of that, I'd STILL be in that street....probably crying and pouring blueberry soup all over me.


-So we always want to win, but I had been told the morning of the team challenge that I would be going on my family day RIGHT after the team challenge, so the pressure of that was on my mind the whole challenge, as well.   I wanted to enter into that experience with a clear mind - and not being worried about having to go to an elimination challenge!   I'm so thankful to Shane and John for helping me get that opportunity!


-The fishing was part of what Shane, John and I did while the girls went to the elimination challenge.  I messed up my fishing pole like 3 seconds into the experience, so I just stood there acting like I was fishing.  In reality, my wire was a big knot of fishing wire and I just stood there dipping it in and out of the water.  It was still fun though.


-When we were at the Dala horse factory, in the room where the horses are cut, the production staff told me that I could NOT volunteer to do all the stations.   I volunteered to stamp - and then we got to the cutting and everyone else hesitated - and I was like ME!!!!  But since it couldn't be me, I pushed Shane to volunteer.  And then I pushed Becky to volunteer to paint!  But MAN I wanted to do all of it!


-So we really did get to paint the horses and then we had to leave them at the Granna's factory to be finished off with lacquer and whatever else they do to finish them.   BUT - there is no way to express the excitement of being home from Sweden for a couple of weeks and getting a box in the mail from Sweden with YOUR OWN Dala horse!  What an incredible day.   I made my Dala horse for my parents - and I think it now sits on their shelf in their home in Boise, Idaho!  (You can bet I will check for it the minute I get home for Christmas!)


-Another GENUINE reaction you got this episode was when the folk band walked out from behind that barn.  Anders said the music sounds something like this....and we heard the music.   And it really honestly sounded like it was being played on a stereo system...so we thought we were going to sit and listen to some music...which was great...because the music is great.  But then the musicians turned the corner - and this wall of emotion and excitement hit us...and we were in perfect musical Swedish heaven!  That experience could've gone on forever and ever....it was INCREDIBLE!!!


-My "profile video" in DC was a fun day!   There was a segment producer and a cameraman with me for about 12 hours that day, and we had a great time!  We shot the segment at Ford's Theatre EARLY in the morning before the theater opened - and the interview portion of that day was in one of the dressing rooms at Ford's.   And for those who have asked....when I am talking to my parents on Skype, I am actually in my friend's (Steve and Allison) basement - not my apartment.  Their house is WAY nicer than my apartment. 


-The boathouse that I am sitting in front of when I open my family trunk is actually a very very old boathouse that was owned and run by the state church.  The church had boats that would go around the lake and pick people up and take them to and from church.  It was a really beautiful setting.  I'm thankful they found it.


-So I have learned a bit more about the house I visited - and it's not actually where my great grandfather grew up his whole life - but it is where the family was living when they decided to leave for America.  It doesn't change the impact of visiting the house - but I just wanted to story to be correct.   It was unreal to visit that home - and to know it was a place of my history....a piece of a story of a family of incredible faith.


-The only other clarification that I wanted to make was at the end of my segment, I said coming out to my parents opened me to a new world to me - and whole new land...and I don't think the editing caught the rest of what I said.   Growing up gay and Mormon had elements of loneliness....but by coming out to my parents, that NEW world it opened up to me was just that I felt like I had wiped away that loneliness.  I was in this new world where my family knew EVERYTHING about me...for the first time ever...and they were there loving and supporting me fully.    I love this "new land"...and I am thankful for incredible parents.


-I AM SO GLAD I DID NOT HAVE TO GO TO THE SAUNA AND EAT HORSE.  


-So our activities in Mora wrapped up and we drove back to Stockholm - the DAY before Midsommar festival started here in Sweden.  It was SO sad to leave Dalarna - and as we drove out, we saw all the little villages gathering around decorating their maypoles....and I wished so badly we could have stayed around and experienced a midsommar out around Mora!   Maybe next time!


Later this week, I'm going to write a longer post about this experience and how it altered and strengthened my faith.  I don't think a quick little bullet point here on this list would do the subject justice.   So I will get a proper entry written to go more in depth about the entire blessing this summer in Sweden was for me.  Until then, have a great week....thank you for following along with this adventure...and please let me know if you have any questions that I can answer for you!  Farewell from Dalarna!!!!

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Episode 5 In Photos


Enjoy my collection of photos from Episode 5!!!

A Morning In Karlstad
A Day With Donnez
Team Competition Day
 A Soccer Game With Friends
More Sights Around Karlstad
Elimination Challenge
Saying Goodbye to Mike
 Goodbye Karlstad!